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Short back-and-forth talks during play are the base of speech practice at home.
18 Jun, 2024

The simplest way to build a preschooler’s speech at home is daily conversation: read aloud and ask about the pictures, play word games such as guessing, synonyms and opposites, and talk during meals and trips. Give your child time to answer and repeat a mistaken word correctly, calmly, without making them say it again.

Read aloud every day and talk about the book

Reading aloud is a lesson and time together at once. It grows vocabulary, shows how sentences are built and trains active listening. Make the reading a conversation:

  • Stop on a picture and ask “What is happening here?” or “What will the bunny do next?”.
  • Let your child finish a familiar line or rhyme.
  • Use one new word from the book later that day, at dinner or on a walk.
  • Return to favourite books: a repeated story lets a child retell it in their own words.
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Speech practice loop: read, ask, wait, repeat correctly.

Word games that make practice fun

Games turn language practice into play, so children ask for them again. Pick one or two and keep them short.

GameHow to playWhat it trains
Guess the wordDescribe an object (“It is round, red and grows on a tree”) and let your child guess, then swap roles.Vocabulary, describing words
Same and oppositeSay a word and ask for a word that means the same (big – large) or the opposite (big – small).Synonyms and antonyms
What is in the bag?Hide a toy in a bag; the child feels it and describes it before looking.Sensory words, full sentences
Story from a pictureShow a picture and ask what happened before and what will happen next.Sequence, past and future tense
Crosswords and ScrabbleFor older children who already read: simple crosswords or word-building games.Spelling, word building

Talk at the table and on the road

Conversations over meals and during family trips teach a child to build a dialogue, share an opinion and listen to others. Ask open questions (“What was the funniest part of your day?”), share your own answer and wait. On the road, describe what you see together: colours, sizes, where things are.

Children learn to listen in the same conversations. Our article on active listening shows how to show a child you hear them, which makes them want to talk more.

How to correct speech mistakes gently

Be patient and support every attempt to speak, even with mistakes. Repeat the phrase correctly in your answer (“I goed to the park” → “Yes, you went to the park! What did you see there?”) and carry on the conversation. A child hears the right form and keeps the wish to talk. Correction that shames a child lowers their motivation to learn.

Steady practice and support build a child’s confidence in their own words, which helps later with friends, in class and at school.

When to ask a speech-language specialist in Ottawa

If you are worried about how your child speaks or understands, you can contact a preschool speech and language program yourself: in Ontario it serves children from birth until they start school, and no referral from your doctor is needed (ontario.ca, Preschool Speech and Language Program). In Ottawa and Renfrew County this program is First Words: free services for children from birth to school entry and an online Communication Checkup for parents (firstwords.ca).

Speech practice in class at KIDSUP

Speech and communication are part of the early development program for children aged 3–⁠6: play-based classes in groups of up to 15, where children talk, listen and ask questions during play. For children 4–⁠8 who are getting ready for school, the school readiness program adds preparation for writing and counting.

ProgramAgesFormatTuition
Early development3–⁠6Group$45
Preparation for school4–⁠8Group or one-to-one$60 group$40 one-to-one
Group classes4–⁠8Up to 15 children$60
Individual sessions4–⁠8One child, one teacher$40 per session

All programs run 9AM–1PM in English at 150 Katimavik Rd, Kanata. Full list: programs and prices.

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Questions parents ask

Talk with your child every day: read aloud and ask about the pictures, play short word games, and talk during meals and trips. Give your child time to answer and repeat mistaken words correctly in your reply.

Guessing games where you describe an object, “same and opposite” word games, “what is in the bag”, retelling a story from a picture, and crosswords or Scrabble for older children who already read.

Repeat the phrase correctly in your answer and continue the conversation, without asking the child to say it again. Correction that shames a child lowers the motivation to speak.

Ontario’s Preschool Speech and Language Program serves children from birth until they start school, and you can contact it yourself without a doctor’s referral. In Ottawa it is First Words, which offers free services and an online Communication Checkup for parents.

Yes. Speech and communication are part of the early development program for ages 3–⁠6 ($45, 9AM–1PM, in English) in Kanata. Book a place online or call 613-867-7786.

Classes for children 3–⁠8 in Kanata

Early development, school readiness, group and individual classes at 150 Katimavik Rd, 9AM–1PM, in English. Tell us your child’s age and we will suggest a program.


Author

Natalia Stepanenko

more than 15 years of work in the field of preschool education, author of programs for the development of children's creativity